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Are you scared to date someone long-distance because you believe distance is the beginning of the end of any relationship? Do you refuse to date men unless they live within a certain geographic radius from your home?<\/p>\n

To date or not-to-date long distance has been a burning question for many single women over 60. It may surprise you to learn that long-distance relationships can be more successful for older daters than for our younger counterparts.<\/p>\n

While relationships may have been driven by our libidos in our younger years, now that we\u2019re more mature we can better balance our physical and emotional needs. For many, being able to hop into bed with someone is no longer a top priority. Still, long-distance relationships require an additional layer of time and attention at any age to make them flourish. But for many it\u2019s worth it.<\/p>\n

*If you and your partner only communicate via text, you have a pen-pal not a relationship. Do Not<\/strong> send money to anyone you haven\u2019t met in person, regardless of how long you have been texting or what he tells you his needs are. If he asks for money, even $1, he is a scammer.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

According to 2023 research, the average long-term relationships last approximately 4.5 months. If you\u2019re looking for a romantic connection while you still maintain your independence here are some tips to help you extend your happiness:<\/p>\n

Come to an Agreement<\/h2>\n

If you met each other on a dating app or while traveling and don\u2019t want to leave your hometown right now, try to set a timeline as to when you\u2019ll reunite as a couple. It can be you moving to him, him moving to you, or both of you moving to a new location so you can enjoy your next chapter together. You could even decide to split your time in half, spending six months at your home and six months at his.<\/p>\n

If neither one of you is willing nor able to move, calling this a relationship might be a bit of a stretch. If you know from the beginning that relocation is not an option for you, dating locally will save you some heart break. Knowing what you want <\/a>from a long-term relationship before you fall in love will keep you from getting hurt. \u00a0<\/p>\n

Make Time to Share Your Day<\/h2>\n

The best way to feel like you\u2019re both part of each other\u2019s lives is to set down some ground rules regarding how often you\u2019ll connect with each other during the day. Make sure he agrees to put forth some effort as well, so you aren\u2019t the only one reaching out. You still want him to pursue you \u2013 it helps to keep things spicey. Nothing dims the flame of attraction like inattention.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t need to be a 60-minute phone call every day. Sometimes quick texts or photos help you feel like you\u2019re part of his life. Show him your new haircut, send a photo of something from your garden, etc. You want to share your everyday life with each other as much as possible to help maintain the continuity and passion in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Mix things up and take advantage of all the available technology. Combining a quick text, a longer phone call, and sharing dinner together with a video chat can keep things interesting and fun. \u00a0<\/p>\n

Nothing Replaces Physical Touch<\/h2>\n

Depending on your distance, schedules, and budgets, it\u2019s a good idea to make a plan for when you will see each other. Chatting is fine, but nothing is better than spending time in person.<\/p>\n

You want to decide if you\u2019ll be together for birthdays and holidays? Will you see each other once a month? Who goes to see whom, when? These are the types of things you want to discuss at the beginning of your relationship. As you design your plan, keep it flexible enough to allow for fun surprises.<\/p>\n

Having specific dates to see each other on your calendar will give you something to look forward to and make the time apart seem less painful. When you manage your expectations, it helps cut down on disappointments.<\/p>\n

This is where many women go wrong in relationships in general. They do too much for their partner and over-give, which then turns into neediness. You always want to keep your life rich and juicy whether you have a long-term partner or not. This is especially important if you\u2019re dating long-distance. Your partner is the cherry on top of life, not the entire ice cream sundae.<\/p>\n

Before you begin a long-distance relationship make sure this is what you really want<\/a>. You could always decide to remain casual with your long-distance friend while you continue dating locally. Remember, dating is all about finding someone you like who will love you the way you want to be loved. If you feel like you\u2019re making too many allowances for love, maybe he\u2019s not the right man for you. And if he\u2019s not, there is someone out there who is.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s Have a Conversation:<\/h2>\n

What are your thoughts on dating long distance? Is it something you would recommend? Was it fun and fulfilling? What tips can you share that helped it work for you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n