{"id":14117,"date":"2025-02-14T20:05:50","date_gmt":"2025-02-14T20:05:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/topat10.com\/?p=14117"},"modified":"2025-02-14T20:05:50","modified_gmt":"2025-02-14T20:05:50","slug":"confessions-of-a-gay-priest-on-hookup-apps","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/topat10.com\/?p=14117","title":{"rendered":"Confessions of a Gay Priest on Hookup Apps"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><span class=\"lead-in-text-callout\">Love is simple,<\/span> says Reverend Paul Anthony Daniels, because \u201cin its most visceral form,\u201d it boils down to three things: spit, semen, and sweat. Ok, maybe four. Sometimes there is blood. \u201cTo share love in that way is so visceral.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">I have a confession, I tell Daniels. I have never been in love\u2014not in the Hallmark movie kind of way, at least\u2014but find myself craving it the older I get, so I\u2019m a little stunned to hear him describe it with such candor. You know, being a priest and all. God is in people, he says. Which means, God is also in sex.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">Daniels loves <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wired.com\/love-bytes\/\">love<\/a>. He seeks it in everything he does, he tells me, but especially in people. It\u2019s part of his job as an Episcopal priest and a \u201cmediator of Christ\u2019s love in the world.\u201d Ceremonially, he is \u201ca steward of the sacraments\u2014the Eucharist, baptism, marriage, confirmation. I invite people into a relationship with God through those sacred ritual acts. But it\u2019s also more than that.\u201d<\/p>\n<div data-testid=\"feature-large-callout\" class=\"CalloutFeatureLargeWrapper-cGjDsT fXVWFS\">\n<figure class=\"AssetEmbedWrapper-eVDQiB byBkf asset-embed\">\n<div class=\"AssetEmbedAssetContainer-eJxoAx dBHGoQ asset-embed__asset-container\"><span class=\"SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB responsive-asset AssetEmbedResponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embed__responsive-asset\"><picture class=\"ResponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa AssetEmbedResponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embed__responsive-asset responsive-image\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Face Head Person Photography Portrait Clothing Formal Wear Suit Blazer and Coat\" class=\"ResponsiveImageContainer-eybHBd fptoWY responsive-image__image lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" data-src=\"https:\/\/media.wired.com\/photos\/67a5165c3059e0f4d65bebfa\/master\/w_1600%2Cc_limit\/CO_GP_FINAL-5.jpg\" data-sizes=\"auto\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/media.wired.com\/photos\/67a5165c3059e0f4d65bebfa\/master\/w_120,c_limit\/CO_GP_FINAL-5.jpg 120w, https:\/\/media.wired.com\/photos\/67a5165c3059e0f4d65bebfa\/master\/w_240,c_limit\/CO_GP_FINAL-5.jpg 240w, https:\/\/media.wired.com\/photos\/67a5165c3059e0f4d65bebfa\/master\/w_320,c_limit\/CO_GP_FINAL-5.jpg 320w, https:\/\/media.wired.com\/photos\/67a5165c3059e0f4d65bebfa\/master\/w_640,c_limit\/CO_GP_FINAL-5.jpg 640w, https:\/\/media.wired.com\/photos\/67a5165c3059e0f4d65bebfa\/master\/w_960,c_limit\/CO_GP_FINAL-5.jpg 960w, https:\/\/media.wired.com\/photos\/67a5165c3059e0f4d65bebfa\/master\/w_1280,c_limit\/CO_GP_FINAL-5.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/media.wired.com\/photos\/67a5165c3059e0f4d65bebfa\/master\/w_1600,c_limit\/CO_GP_FINAL-5.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"100vw\"\/><\/noscript><\/picture><\/span><\/div>\n<p><span class=\"BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ CaptionText-bHjzlu iUEiRd kVUvEC iXWezO caption__text\">Rev. Paul Anthony Daniels<\/span><span class=\"BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ CaptionCredit-ejegDm iUEiRd isTgyB fNaHcW caption__credit\">Photograph: Carianne Older<\/span><\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"paywall\">It\u2019s the <em>more<\/em> part that\u2019s got me in Los Angeles\u2019 Koreatown sitting across from him in his apartment as he sips from a whiskey glass, going on about desire, salvation, and all the irresistible ways people come together. A graduate of Morehouse College and Yale Divinity School, Daniels, 34, is not your average Episcopal priest. He\u2019s something of a trailblazer. A rogue in a clerical collar.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">Although faith has been central to Daniels\u2019 identity since his boyhood in Raleigh, North Carolina, he also grew up with an abiding appreciation for music\u2014Stevie Wonder, Chaka Khan, John Mayer. In 2007, he auditioned for season 7 of <em>American Idol<\/em> and made it all the way to <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/American_Idol\" class=\"external-link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/American_Idol&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/American_Idol\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Hollywood Week<\/a>. \u201cAs soon as I walked to the hotel in Pasadena I knew that I was not slated to be one of the young people that they were going to pay attention to,\u201d he says. \u201cAll the producers had their eyes on <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/David_Archuleta\" class=\"external-link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/David_Archuleta&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/David_Archuleta\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">David Archuleta<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">He returned to Raleigh and dug deeper into what eventually became his calling. Being openly gay and Christian meant he had the capacity to \u201csay and do things that could open doors of possibility for people.\u201d Daniels has since made that into his life\u2019s work. Hence the whole spit, semen, sweat thing. There\u2019s a bigger context to all of <em>this<\/em>, he wants me to know. It also helps that he often gives lectures on these very topics\u2014\u201csexual socialities as theological questions\u201d\u2014in addition to being a PhD candidate at Fordham University.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">Most people today have what Daniels calls a \u201cconsumerist devotion built around the consumption of material things\u2014bodies, clothes, objects.\u201d The worst instances of that are on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wired.com\/tag\/social-media\/\">social media<\/a>. He encounters it on Instagram (his favorite dating platform) and the various hookup apps he frequents. Social media, he says, has become a \u201csite of worship\u2014pun intended.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\"><strong>Jason Parham: As a priest who uses dating and hookup apps, how do you navigate your relationship to desire?<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love is simple, says Reverend Paul Anthony Daniels, because \u201cin its most visceral form,\u201d it boils down to three things: spit, semen, and sweat. Ok, maybe four. Sometimes there is blood. \u201cTo share love in that way is so visceral.\u201d I have a confession, I tell Daniels. 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